It is up to something common among younger women in this so-called "digital era": they are inscribed on these sites and social networking applications, hoping to find a boyfriend and, out of nowhere, just getting pornographic pictures of men who even knew.
But with the British Samantha Mawdsley it was a different story.
I had done nothing more than posting on Facebook a review of a restaurant she met in Manchester, England. Shortly thereafter, he received notification of a message from someone who introduced himself as James, whom she had never met.
He had just sent a picture of his penis to her.
In her blog, she described the astonishment:
"I read about these mystical events, but then I stayed for three years in a relationship before I met Tinder (dating application) and never thought something like this would happen to me. My initial thought was to ignore, as we women are taught from early. But ... no! I decided to mess with it and draw attention to all the ridiculous behavior he had had. "
The Mawdsley response was do it taste the poison itself.
She sent to James such a series of penis photos. The man reacted very well - said he was being "friendly" and asked why the girl was acting like this.
Mawdsley continued to answer it with penis pictures. He said that "was also being friendly with him, sending images in the same way he had done first."
Irritated, the man came to ask her to the conversation "was between them." It was then that the young man had another idea.
She made pictures of the conversation, covered parts "improper" the penis photos with fun images - one of them was a fist stretched with the phrase "mine is bigger" - and posted the entire history of the dialogue on his Facebook page.
"I wanted to show you guys, it's every girl that will not be quiet; you run, yes, the risk of end up exposed, and you can not do that," said the publication.
The post it made last Sunday, was shared thousands of times on Facebook - and has been removed steadily since then, because of the platform's policy on nudity. Mawdsley was overloaded with messages.
"I feel like Beyonce I read messages from all over the world, including Germany, the Netherlands and to Aruba People have written... 'You are my inspiration' and 'you zeroed the internet' Until received messages men apologizing for the behavior of other men. I was shocked, "he said.
"I never got a picture so out of context or on dating sites, where they think that kind of thing is accepted because you 'is there for that.'
This guy came out of nowhere. "
recurring problem
This year alone, many women have spoken about this kind of attitude reported by Mawdsley.
The model Emily Sears, for example, revealed that warned her friends about some men who had already sent the images as well.
Stina Sanders, model and blogger, drew attention to the problem shared a selfie of nudity that was sent to her.
"I had an experience like that when he was 15. A man sat next to me in a library and began to masturbate. I stayed quiet because I did not know what to do, but I wanted to point to him and scream," he said.
But Samantha Mawdsley impact do you expect your attitude to have?
"I really think the men who saw it will think twice before doing something like this again. I would prefer that they just learned that it is unacceptable, but would already be happy if at least not happen anymore. This is sexual harassment and not it should be allowed. "
But another man sent an inappropriate picture to it - even after all the repercussions of the post. "I Not bothered to answer. I will not play that game."
About James, the guy responsible for the post that viralizou on Facebook, the young woman said: "I almost feel a little bad for him."
"Of all the guys who send these photos, he was just unlucky. I know there is a person behind it, but for a much larger for everyone, had to do it. Something needs to change and it had to be a" martyr 'for this cause, "he said.
"If he tried to contact me, I would be afraid. But I did not do anything wrong. Just pointed and screamed."
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