"Love Manual". In one of the latest experiments, the teacher Marisa Cohen analyzed what behaviors make men and women feel they are doing well. The results are (obviously) very different for each gender.
If you go out with women: talk about them. For them, this is one of the main evidence that the encotnro is going well. If you go out with men: talk about you - they feel they are hitting when the woman can open enough to tell you what's wrong with her. At least for heterosexuals, if the subject is a woman, there are good chances for everyone to be satisfied.
The study of girls also showed a preference for being interrupted. Controversial? For skirt not cutting the girl. When analyzed the results, the researchers found that the effect was when the other person was enjoying both the subject who had become too sweeping and talking while the woman.
It is also good to forget the story to look deeply into the eyes to show interest. This ends up being scary: one finds being confronted and will create resistance to anything you have to say.
Speaking of talk, it seems that the outcome of the first meeting is already hidden in the words. According to the researcher Molly Ireland, the Technological University of Texas, the most accurate way to predict whether two people will get along is if they use the same type of vocabulary - the same pronouns and articles, for example. In this case, the gauchos and Rio de Janeiro with his "you" are less likely to have a good meeting with Sao Paulo, but would work together.
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